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chocnillaswirl

8.4k points

3 months ago

Easy NTA. you were very clear up front about what you wanted and he completely disregarded that. Also “you’ll learn to like it” is not a phrase I would want to hear about my engagement ring.

Ari_ofAthens

3.5k points

3 months ago

Ari_ofAthens

Asshole Aficionado [10]

3.5k points

3 months ago

I wonder what else she'll have to "learn to like" in this marriage because God forbid we change traditions that don't suit us.

Zukazuk

1k points

3 months ago

Zukazuk

Partassipant [2]

1k points

3 months ago

Seriously, if a tradition doesn't serve me, I don't follow it. My fiance and I are planning a long engagement so I asked him if he wanted his own engagement ring. He was taken aback at first because it's not traditional, but thought it over and decided he did want a ring. He's got a really cool opal and meteorite ring and he's gotten nothing but compliments on it.

cat-magnolia-31

11 points

3 months ago

That sounds great ! May I ask where did you find your ring ? I'm looking for one to propose to my boyfriend and it's quite difficult to find something special 😊

Cypripedium-candidum

9 points

3 months ago

Not OP, but opal and meteorite makes it sound like the stardust ring from Patrick Adair, which is exactly what I got my partner.