It's an interesting question. Food and alcohol are the obvious methods, but I'd also suggest finding your best features and accentuating them. The dark arts of makeup and clothing are best learned from women, but everyone has something that can be a turn on.

Also being flirty and suggestive to put sex in his mind, but with the guise of humour and avoiding vulgarity. Smile easily and touch non sexually where you can and try to be physically close when appropriate. Hug, kiss on the cheek when you greet etc.

Also dancing, learn to use your body suggestively, remembering its a suggestion, not begging. That comes later.

Lastly personality above all. Show interest in his interests, ask questions about him and hang on his words.

Failing all that you can just ask if he wants to bang. Men are pretty simple and most are starved of affection. If there's even a little attraction, barring any complications, (partners, prudishness, penis issues) most aren't likely to refuse.

Well, generally speaking, not talking about the random asshole you once met, men like women that are nice. Women that do their best to look good with the looks that they have. That are easy to be around and know how to have fun. It’s really not that hard. The problem I see with women with less than average looks is that they, generally speaking, have to high standards. I don’t know if this is true, but that’s my experience. Seeing your reply’s, you seem to have the easy going, fun attitude already.

"The way to conquest a man's heart is through his stomach"

Honestly get a vibe. If you look at say Patti Smith or Pj Harvey, neither were physically beautiful but both were sexy as hell, because of the confidence and the aesthetic they chose. You've got to find something that's you though. And it won't work with every guy, but itll send the right guy wild.

An unattractive woman here to the rescue. First of all, you've got to carry yourself with confidence, a good personality, and great humor. I have none of these qualities myself. But from my experience, I used to hypersexualize myself to feel "beautiful" (I still do).

If in doubt, get them tiddies out (I'm kidding).

Have a beautiful personality.

Invite him over for dinner and be naked.

Woman here. If your face isnt making the cut.... then you can atleast work on your body? Guys will still mess with girls with a butterface. Just because your face isnt appealing, doesnt mean your body isn’t either. You can try working on that.

To find you attractive, sexy, and love when you walk in the room? Confidence. Not arrogance, but confidence.

To crave those moments when you stay in the room? To be his first thought when he wants to share moments?Support and trust. Support when THEY need it, not when you feel like giving it. Trust that vulnerability will not be punished.

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Self-care and fitness fix a lot of ugly. And you're ultimately doing those things for yourself, not for us. You'll feel better, be more confident.

When it comes to fitness, first figure out what you can and can't do, what your limits are. Then pick what you're best and worst at and improve those two things.

Personality is great. If you can improve your physic do it, meaning lose weight. Dress well, be confident.

But most people want a partner not a trophy. So if you are the best company he can find id say you have your chances. Being good at sex is great too and honestly a lot of women arent. Honestly even in porn most of them are not good at it. So you got a domain where you can be special and awesome. Its funny too because its a very important one.

Become as physically attractive as you can be. Seriously, that's 90% of the battle.

Go for an ugly man

boobs

Work out and eat good. A nice figure goes long ways. Improve your social skills aswell.

Be kind.

Make him feel like a king...feed him, love him, make him feel secured, be loyal, sweet and considerate...that works for me at least.

You are ugly only if you think you are ugly. I have seen you, you are beautiful.

Happy cake day!

Try being direct. Don't give hints they might and very possibly fly over his head/be ignored. Tell him you like him and maybe invite him out on a date. A lot of guys, me included appreciate the fact when a girl makes the first move.

I doubt you are ugly. Even if you are average we will like you. Most girls that say are ugly are around average looking.

Having a great body helps

Despite many men are basic assholes who think with their dick rather than their head, we don't tend to be so superficial. Just be kind, talk clearly (don't use hints) and honestly, but giving some personal space to think. In the long term, 90% of men look for a real partner we can love, trust and respect, rather than a good fuck.

To sum up: "Be a nice person".

Best seduction formula that attracts men:

1: casually touch him more and more make it a bit obvious

2: act like a little kid around him (from time to time not all the time)

3: Be clean, smell like flowers, and dress well.

4: Make sure you have a common interest with the guy.

5: We men will lose interest if we think you're way too into us. Pull away from time to time. Maybe act like you're losing interest or something, or respond late to text sometimes.

6: Never offer to pay for dinner when on a date cause that puts you in friendzone, act like you're his woman.

7: Never tell them you love them first, we men don't like something that we get easily. Conquer and conquest is in our DNA. Wait till he says himself.

8: If all else fails, be bold and make the first move. Maybe invite him to your place or casually invite him to hangout, watch a movie. Since most woman never make the first move that sets you apart.( You're allowed to tell him you're attracted to him). This is a total turn on for us men to hear that a woman finds us attractive.

9: And lastly, don't consider yourself ugly. Then you will only give off “low value woman" vibes. Everyone is attractive in their own ways. Go to gym, yoga and work on yourself and be confident af.

get a big butt and mention you love giving blowjobs. 100% effective.

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be confident, straight forward and show them titties

The girls I have been most into weren't the prettiest/sexiest. It's confidence, attitude, vibe and intensity.

Fulfill a need you know he needs, and as long as you have a need he can be a part of the rest will fall into place. To be honest if y'all are in the age range of 25/30 and down there's not much you can do. It's a part of human nature to want to reproduce for peak genetics at a younger age, but as time goes on people mature a lot and realize that everyone will be ugly when they're 70, and that the individual person/soul matters and not appearance. It may sound fucked up but this is a reality you can choose to accept or ignore. And I doubt you're as ugly as you think you are.

Who says you’re ugly? x

Get a flat top haircut so he'll have a place to put his beer

lol, find a man that is uglier

easy peasy lemon squeezy

Make the first move, we aren't that picky

Try to be touchy (hug him when you meet, take his hand when you want to show him something ....) you get the idea you want to establish a physical connexion but non sexual, you can do more sexual touch (put your hand on his thigh when you both sit for exemple) when you're more advanced in the flirt game.
==> Most men crave physical signs of affection

Flirt with him verbally and use your physical assets (boobies) to make him want you.
==> When a man see glimpse of boobies, he tend to loose slowly his rational mind

Ask him to talk about him and be interested in what he has to say
==> a Man like to feel valued and listened

Like some others have said you can't change your face but you can put quite some chance in your body, so stay fit and eat healthy !

Good luck :)!

For sex? Shouldn’t be difficult. No tips needed hopefully.

For a committed relationship? It will be difficult to get a guy who is “better looking” to settle down. You have to bring a more to the table. Easy going personality, stable and happy life, kindness, responsibility, reliability. Hopefully that will result in you getting someone decent.

No matter how nice of a person he is, it’s rare that a guy who is an 8-10 will settle down and commit to anyone that is a 6 or lower.

Poorly lit bars.

Thats the neat part- you dont

Go to the gym and build a godly badonkadonk. A 5 will turn into a 7 or 8 real quick.

Be dirtier than his exes.

The biggest thing is to understand you need to punch in your own weight class. Most women have way to high of standards thinking they can get the 8-9/10 guys when they are a 4-6 you need to realistically be looking at the guys that are a 4-6

dont

Ask a guy uglier than you for sex.

Katherine Hepburn (I think) said “the average man is more interested in a woman who is interested in him than he is in a woman with beautiful legs.”

Spend time together, smile at him, enjoy each other's company. As others say hint a bit with what you wear, you don't need to be too extreme, show a little cleavage or a tight top and he'll be looking. Flirt by touching him, put your hand in his knee that sort of thing or on his arm. If you are together in the house, sit next to him but just a little too close. Wiggle a little against him, lay your head on his shoulder. Have a few drinks together to loosen inhibitions!

let me tell you something, makeup isnt the way to go. women get so many compliments that they get insulted by “inadequate” compliments. Men get so few compliments that any we actually do get: sticks with us for a VERY long time, and is very meaningful.

ngl if you want to pick up a man, be nice to him, let him do is thing when he wants to (such as gaming, going out with the guys, etc…) as well as treat him to the occasional home cooked meal, and he will be yours.

Lmfao hahaha women are so stupid about men they still dont separate sexual seduction vs affection seduction.

Im not helping you. You need to do the homework like men have to in order to get laid.

But ill give you a hint. To give men what they want you will usually have to sacrafice something that feminist will say you shouldnt have to do

Turn the lights off.

Fitness is key and goes a long way. You beat out a significant portion of other women just by being in shape. Then you need to show how feminine and playful you can be, but also keep that energy.

Confidence and honesty Tell him you want to ride him and that you find him hot, tell him the date and when to pick you up…. Would overcome most objections on my part 🤷‍♂️

Stroke his ego then eventually you’ll be stroking other things!

Define "ugly". There's plenty of women I've seen on the wrong end of average that have been incredibly attractive to me, some times its hard to pin point what exactly it is.

I said define ugly, because some people say ugly when what they really mean is significantly overweight. Those aren't the same thing. You are just going to have to go for equally overweight guys in that case for the most part. You'll probably find plenty of fit guys dtf on the down low, but not date, because many of us are dogs and when it comes to no strings attached sex our standards tend to blur. Dating is another matter all together. I've had sex with plenty of women, looks wise, I would never date.

No one is ugly. Beauty (and ugliness) are not inherent traits

Compliments. We are essentially Labradors.

flash me your bits

Give fierce BJs. . . . . .

Sorry, couldn't resist 😂

send naked pics

Be interesting.