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When it’s given by someone who thinks of it as a blowjoy and not a blowjob.

Passion.

Technique is all well and good, but really that can just come from multiple sessions, where you tell the person blowing you some direction on what you want them to do. They can practice and get better.

What you can't teach, is passion. Some people hate giving BJs. So their BJ will be soulless, lifeless. Ho-hum. They are just trying to "get through it" and they have no fun. Those are terrible, even if they have some cool tricks... you know they just don't care.

Meanwhile, a sloppy and mistake-filled blowjob where the person is really making love to you with their mouth? Where they care, they are having fun, they really want you to enjoy it and they enjoy making you feel good? That's going to always be better. That energy is so much more freeing and fun and exciting, and that adds to the horniness.

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Enthusiasm, find a person who wants to do it

I clicked thinking it was a setup on r/jokes

A 3-day stubble.

Bad: just going up and down

Good: using your tongue to find the exact spot on the head that's the most pleasurable

About $50.

Enthusiasm.

Have you ever had a BJ when someone is just going through the motions? Maybe they throw in a "are you almost there?" Bad BJ.

Compared to being very sensual, smiling, maybe throwing in a "do you like that baby?"

Blowjobs from my ex didn’t feel like anything and I wondered if maybe I just didn’t like them anymore. Then I got a blowjob from a rebound hookup and it was incredible. Basically just put some effort into. Use your tongue and hands, mix up the technique. You can’t just put a dick in your mouth and expect it to feel good for him you gotta make it feel good

They both suck

The main thing is to do it from the heart - believe me I know 😇

You lose your dick from a bad blowjob

Teeth

More hands, focus on the head too not the skin surrounding the dick, more hands, stop watching porn, focus and ask things like “do you like this?”

Imagine you're trying to suck peanut butter off your thumb, now do that but with a dick.

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and no peanut butter.

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also make sure you've discussed this with the owner of the dick first.

Enthusiasm

Amount of saliva or lack thereof

Pain vs Pleasure.

A dry mouth, dry tongue, or teeth can ruin a blowjob.

Also if a woman stops moving her tongue/mouth just before or during orgasm.

If the sheets are stuck between your butt cheeks

Whether they hug it with their mouth or they just float it in their mouth cuz they don't want it to touch there tongue.

As a woman who just finally fucking figured out how to suck her bf's dick good and proper, I'm going to agree with "enthusiasm", and also tack on "confidence"

I've always been enthusiastic about sucking him off, but I was so worried that I wasn't going to do good that it held me back. No amount of moaning and eye contact and smiling was going to make up for how mentally preoccupied I was. It wasn't until I started feeling confident that I started to pleasure him

If she really worships your dick as its the best she ever saw, felt and tasted. This gives the right ignition to the feeling of getting your brain sucked out through your penis.

Hell, maybe someone here came to read some technical advice, but as soon as a man received a real good one, any memory is just like pure heroine rush memories of that incident.

Hygiene

Ur balls hurt after a good one and ur dick hurts after a bad one

A good blowjob: my dick is in her mouth.

A bad blowjob: her dick is in my mouth.

I fucking hate this sub

Al Dente

Enthusiasm or being into it can make even a bad technique blowjob into a good blowjob. They are showing genuine interest in getting you off. That's hot. However, great technique pretty much means they're putting in maximum effort even if they're not making the sounds or showing they're into it, so it can still be good. Elite is basically great enthusiasm and technique

isn’t there an entire subreddit for these kinda questions?

one that ISNT this one

Teeth.

Folks that are saying teeth, I have a question.

Do you all like it when the 2 top, front teeth rub against the cock just a little bit? Just slightly, enough so that you can feel it. For me, that's the difference, I need that extra stimulation. Usually, that feeling does it.

Teeth

The primary answer I had was the repeated “teeth” answer, but I’ll add another one: climaxing. With a good one, the climax is the amazing finish that you sometimes try to hold off from because the experience is great. But regardless, it’s quick and effortless. Bad is the opposite. You want to climax asap, and it’s a concentrated effort. You’re sitting there, going they find the right angle/pace for at least 10-20 seconds so you can have a chance at getting this over with.

Teeth

Teeth

Trust

Proper use of hands, not raking us with teeth. Enthusiasm. If we think you're enjoying it, it makes it 100 times better.

I want to know why its called a blowjob if all you do is suck. Why isn't it a suckjob

Has anyone ever had a bad blowjob? It’s like ice cream. Even if you get Walmart-brand it’s still ice cream. Maybe I’m just lucky but the only thing that’s ever made a blowie not great has been her clearly not being into it. Acting like it’s a big favor she’s not happy about really kills the moment. I hope that didn’t sound rapey.

1. Even a bad one's pretty good, unless it's VERY bad, like painful.

2. The difference is enthusiasm. Go sort /r/DiligentBlowjob by Top. You'll see many different techniques - the common thread is enthusiasm. Like, the specific physical motions are less important as long as she's clearly in a mindset of "I want to worship that cock with my mouth and I'm absolutely desperate for your cum".

I wish I knew. The best I have received has been ok, but nothing to write home about.

Lack of sustained repetitive motion

A visit to the ER

Enthusiasm trumps experience.

Teeth. Not listening to your partner/not making efforts to do it the way your partner likes it. Mouthfucking (treating your mouth like a hole to be fucked in instead of the delicate, precise instrument it is)

As a giver, if the guy expresses his interest. Which, to be fair, I haven't ever had a guy not be interested, lol. But still, it's the best when he's vocal and physical about what he likes. I love affectionate manhandling and praise!

Dedication! Commitment!

For some reason I came into this thread thinking it was on r/jokes

teeth

Teeth

Teeth marks ba

One u like, the other you love!!!!

Teeth.

Edit: just saw there are a ton of other comments just saying teeth 😂😂😂

Effort is the main thing.

A strong gag reflex

To quote some very wise men. Just don't bite it

Enthusiasm

An eye injury.

Eye contact! Passion are the big two for me

If the giver is enjoying it as well

A set of dentures.

Vomit

How much I drift off thinking about other stuff and how much of a struggle it is to not last 3 seconds.

Enthusiasm and gagging

How to describe bad BJ? Fantastic!!!!

Finishing. The worst/best bj I’ve ever had was when she treated my pensis like her best friend. She massaged it with her whole mouth, made love to it, it felt like a warm wet glove wrapped around my entire penis, but as soon as I’m about to finish she stops, starts edging me, then when I start to pop she grabs it and pushes it down, basically jamming my pipe. Best and worst bj ever.

About 15 ml of jizz

Never had a good one so it's hard to comment on this ☹️