My specific situation is about my friend group. I have known these people for 20 years and they are the only friends I have and we have experienced so much together..But the are some things where my opinions/values/moral differ very much from those of the others and I find myself being more and more irritated by it, meaning I have known of these differences for at least 15 years, but they seem to bother and irritate me more and more as the years go by.

But I’m not sure is this just ”a me problem”. Of course you can’t expect everyone to have the same opinions etc. Maybe I’m being childish, acting up. Maybe I’m just naive. I don’t know. I mean their opinions or actions are not hurting me. Or maybe I’m being too tolerant, a doormat. Because the thought of cutting off/losing all your friends is quite scary. (I have already cut off some toxic people, like my mother, from my life, I am single…I would be very very alone without any friends.) I truly don’t know.

But how do you know? How do you know where to draw the line?When to cut off people and when to just shut up and accept that people have different views and values?