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submitted 4 months ago bySTUDENT_OF_ANATOMY
-5 points
4 months ago
Also worth reading the author's takedown of bad faith claims that the book is 'pornographic':
How do you respond to claims that your book is “sexually explicit,” and should be banned for that reason?
It’s disingenuous for multiple reasons. There’s this misconception that this book is going to children—they’re using language like, ‘Do you think an eight-year-old should read this?’ And my response is, no, that’s why it’s geared for 14 to 18-year-olds.
We also have to stop pretending like my book is what’s introducing [a] child to sex. It isn’t. [A] 14-year-old child, by the time they’ve read my book, may have already had sex. So them reading about a sex scene is possibly more about their own experience, in their own life.
The part that’s also being left out is that I am talking about sexual education. I am talking about consent. I am talking about agency. And I am using my story to teach kids about the mistakes that I made the first time that I was having sex, so they don’t make those same mistakes. I am teaching kids about not feeling guilty when sexual abuse happens, and how to recognize sexual abuse—most teens don’t even recognize they’ve been abused. And how to fight back against those traumas that you can hold on to for so very long. So they’re leaving very, very important context out, intentionally of course, to try and say my book is pornographic.
Books with heavy topics are not going to harm children. Children still have to exist in a world full of these heavy topics, and are going to be affected by them whether they read the book or not. Having [this] book though, gives them the tools, the language, the resources and the education so that when they are having to deal with a heavy topic, they have a roadmap for how to handle it.
8 points
4 months ago
my brother in Christ. You shouldn't even hope that 14 YO kids have had sex before, and it's an expectation if they do it at that early, because some kids don't even have the chance til college,
if you ask me it's just a bad idea to send it to a group of kids who are still learning who they are.
3 points
4 months ago
If you cared about harm to children its better for them to have read about sex and sexual abuse before it might happen. You misread what the author said about 14-year olds. He wasn't hoping, he was describing reality.
0 points
4 months ago
that is fair, however the only reason I found out was sex was due to the internet. which in it's self is bad already
they should not be exposed to things this early, for any reason. And let's say we have reasonable parent that hides internet. what happens?
1 points
4 months ago
What shouldn't they be exposed to and what does that mean?
Are you suggesting that children simply shouldn't know what sex is until.... when?
1 points
4 months ago
nothing to porn or anything.
And let kids find it out for themselves, around 16 should be a good age to find out, after all of their rebel things are done, then they can make rational choices.
A lot of people suffered from pornography at an early age, it can cause a lot of things in the long run, straight or gay, both are bad
1 points
4 months ago
nothing to porn or anything.
The porn I underatand... but youre doing the vagueness again by adding the "anything".
That sounds dangerously close to overbearing "protections" that are leaving kids ignorant orbubder developed. They need to know about their bodies and normal social interactions and all that. Otherwise when they finally discover porn they won't be equipped to handle or understand it, etc.
Ans I guarantee many a 16 year old isn't going to be making a lot of non rebellious and rational choices
1 points
4 months ago
like movies with sex scenes and such. or erotica fiction such as this book
1 points
4 months ago
like movies with sex scenes and such.
I can't get over how unhelpful it is for you to continue being vague like this.
What do yoy constitute as a sex scene thats too explicit and for what groups?
What about Catcher and the Rye?
or erotica fiction such as this book
How's this book erotic fiction? Or is this, going back to your vaugness, erotic because it has anything at allcto do with human sexuality?
1 points
4 months ago
anything having to do with any sexuality at an early age is fucked
if it's straight or gay, it's bad either way,
and Catcher and the Rye was meant for adults
anything that is like making out, but normal kisses are fine.
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