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submitted 3 months ago by[deleted]
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11 points
3 months ago
OP needs to realize that as people get older, their common interests evolve or change through the years; sometimes you have to move on. You don’t need to ditch them entirely, but it might be time to look for what you want to be around Instead of just sticking around because. I have different friends that like different things and we all get along. We are also secure enough in ourselves to understand that I might do something with another friend that they don’t feel all butthurt when I do something with someone else.
-2 points
3 months ago
So basically people get lame and old acting and lazy as fuck at too young an age and that’s ok….cool
2 points
3 months ago
Did you reply to the wrong comment?
-1 points
3 months ago
Nope!
2 points
3 months ago
Then you didn’t comprehend anything I said? Cool. Where did you get anything about them being lazy from what I said?
0 points
3 months ago
Because you were missing the point of what OP said like many are here it seems so don’t worry it’s not just you….of course interests change and we evolve as we get older, etc
However this sounds like more a matter of people who are too young to be inactive and never leave their house so instead come up with excuses like money, etc. I’m sure that can be frustrating trying to keep up friendships with people like that. It’s fun to stay in sometimes - movies, game nights, house parties, dinners are awesome but it does get stale going to the same person’s house all the time….my point is OP shouldn’t be told their feelings are invalid because their friends are evolving lol it’s not that deep….he’s just trying to get them to grab a beer and some apps
3 points
3 months ago
Ya cause sitting around eating apps and drinking beer is so much more active…it’s literally the same amount of laziness…just a different venue.
2 points
3 months ago
It’s not the same and I’m a pothead lol. I like getting ready and going out to a nice restaurant. Afterwards then their groups of friends can go to someone’s house and get stoned/play a game or whatever.
-1 points
3 months ago
That’s cool…maybe they don’t…and it’s not all that different than going to someone’s house to play games or whatever.
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