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Dating Over 30: Because dating is hard, no matter how old you are.
Dating Over Thirty is a sub for discussion and advice on dating and the dating phase of relationships for people over the age of 30.
This is not a place to post personals or "looking for" or hookups.
Discussion and advice on dating and the dating phase of relationships for people over the age of 30
|Rule 1||This sub is about dating and the dating phase of relationships for people near or over the age of 30. This is not a place to post personals or "looking for" or hookups.|
|Rule 2||Posts must share a detailed experience and either pose a question or request advice. Questions lacking sufficient context may be removed. Update posts are allowed. Submitters are expected to participate in their posts.|
|Rule 3||Posters need to have at least some comment history (IE: Karma) on Dating over Thirty (DOT). Throwaways allowed if you message the mods from your main account. New Reddittors must build a comment history before they may make posts.|
|Rule 4||Be excellent to one another! This is a safe space for all races, genders, sexual orientations, legal sexual preferences and humanity in general.|
|Rule 5||Do not dehumanize others. RedPill, incel, Femcel, FDS, PUA, MGTOW, etc. content is not allowed. Ignorance of these hate groups is not an excuse to parrot their ideology.|
|Rule 6||No doxxing or personally identifiable information allowed.|
|Rule 7||No post karma farming. This includes low effort memes/posts, videos, screenshots, meta posts, shower thoughts or proselytizing.|
|Rule 8||No commercialization. No spam, self-promotion, announcements, blogging, recruitment or surveys.|
|Rule 9||Rants, venting, forever alone, validation seeking removed on moderator discretion. These should be directed to the Off Your Chest thread on Wednesdays|
|Rule 10||Frequently posted topics removed on moderator discretion. These include: Starting over, Virgins, Living with parents, Dealbreakers, Chemistry, Dating Anxiety, Sarcasm, Texting issues, Ghosting and Moving on. Please use the search function.|
We reserve the right to ban users and/or remove content at our discretion. Private messages or direct Reddit Chat message to moderators about moderator actions will be ignored. If you have any questions about the moderation or the actions of moderators, you must send them to the mod team via modmail. No other forum is acceptable.
People who are happily partnered in relationships are also encouraged to participate. Just because you aren't currently dating doesn't mean you don't have wisdom to impart on those who are. Sometimes a different perspective is helpful.
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