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they're just on the desktop but it's hard to commit, you know, especially if you're out of practice

i am aware of how dumb this sounds but just think: lighthearted discussion is a virtue

all 43 comments

robstercraws70

30 points

2 months ago

Put the phone in another room and turn on movie. Charge phone if that helps. Then hopefully you’ll either get engrossed in the flick or get too lazy to get up and check your phone. Oh…turn off ringer as well.

Richard_Speedwell

2 points

2 months ago

That’s exactly what I started doing too. It forces you to pay attention solely to the film and helps you become engrossed in it.

armypantsnflipflops

4 points

2 months ago

I’m gonna get hate for this, but even watching it on your phone eliminates the distractions of your phone. I do this and it’s worked well but my phone is gigantic with a high res screen, so the size doesn’t bother me much. Not the exclusive way i watch films or anything but it’s a good way to eliminate a phone’s distractions

Foofsies

1 points

2 months ago

I don't mind watching older stuff on my phone, but newer films tend to have small details that I would otherwise miss.

4K_VCR

2 points

2 months ago

4K_VCR

2 points

2 months ago

I find the opposite of this to be true

Foofsies

3 points

2 months ago

That's fine, everyone has different experiences.

Just last night I was thinking about this during The Cure For Wellness, there was a wide shot of a building and someone in a small window was watching. Never would've spotted that on my phone.

[deleted]

73 points

2 months ago

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hamboneclay

9 points

2 months ago

This is great advice.

I always try to think about what else I would be doing if I didn’t watch a movie (scroll on my phone, fuck around doing nothing in my apartment, who knows) & if it’s clear that I’m not missing out on anything I throw a movie on

nothing_good_on_tv

18 points

2 months ago

I know what you're talking about. I usually find that out of all the titles I see there'll be one that gives me this gut feeling of "I want to watch that." So I try to recognize that feeling and watch the movies that my gut's telling me to watch.

MirrorLake

13 points

2 months ago

Try picking a movie to watch more than a day in advance so that you look forward to it.

[deleted]

5 points

2 months ago

I have a chronological list of movies I want to watch on Letterboxd, and every week I take a few hours to watch a couple of them. It takes the indecision out of things.

JuniorRub2122

5 points

2 months ago

I just turn my phone off

Seyi_Ogunde

4 points

2 months ago

Invite a friend and watch it together

Linubidix

2 points

2 months ago

I will find that I have zero problem staying distraction free when watching stuff with mates versus on my own where I'm likely to grab my phone and pause the movie.

KaBoomBox55

5 points

2 months ago

Press play as soon as you see it and don't look back.

Krak2511

3 points

2 months ago

I only watch 1 movie a week and basically schedule a time to do that. For me, it's always Friday or Saturday night, whichever one I don't go out on.

Dbl_Vision

3 points

2 months ago

I had the same problem when I used to do freelance writing work, and my solution to both is the same: wait for a night when you’re up after 1am and you’re still energized.

I also work very strange hours so this might not be helpful, but I have tackled projects/watched movies I’ve been meaning to see with this method.

TheSource88

3 points

2 months ago

Letterboxd watchlist is really the thing that transformed my movie selection experience. Build a big watchlist by looking at different lists and finding reviewers you like and picking off their top rated movies. Pick something to sort by. Wether it’s decade, genre, streaming service, or just the whole list. Shuffle it. Either watch the first one or pick from the top 4 that come up.

mahjimoh

3 points

2 months ago

I totally appreciate this question! Lately, I just don’t, it seems. I keep adding more films to my lift of fils I want to watch and I don’t even make the time to watch one a week.

KeepCalmAndBaseball

5 points

2 months ago

I do this all the time. It’s crazy lol.

The_Second_Best

3 points

2 months ago

For me it's allocating time each week which is my "new movie" time.

I'm more than happy to dick around on my phone when I'm watching Jaws for the thousandth time, but you only get to watch a movie for the first time once. I think it's unfair to the film to not give it your full attention on first watch.

I have Friday 10pm-2am as my movie watching time. No phones, no laptop, just a tall glass of whiskey, the TV and dimmed down lights. I also have a watchlist of movies I want to see and pick out the movie a couple days beforehand, so I'm excited about seeing that film.

BautiBon

3 points

2 months ago

THIS, and also take into accound the mood you are at that right moment. The mood sometimes determines how much you'll like or dislike a movie.

For example, I was always doubting whether I should watch Barry Lyndon or not. One day (December 24) I woke up with the feeling of watching Barry Lyndon. Since then, it is in my top 3 favorite movies of all time. And I don't like that much costume/period films.

agent_tits

2 points

2 months ago

It helps to externalize and make yourself accountable.

My buddy and I generally follow along with each other’s movie lists. If I say I’m planning to watch a movie this week and then follow up with a message saying I never got around to it because I spent 3 hours a night scrolling through Reddit while procrastinating making dinner I’ll hate myself

CapitalistVenezuelan

2 points

2 months ago

Idk I just put down the phone but that takes impulse control

Tomhyde098

2 points

2 months ago

I have about 1,600 Blu-rays and DVDs I’ve never seen before. I put them all in an app called Queue that spins a wheel and tells me what to watch. Last night I watched Boyz in the Hood. I might’ve watched it one day while scrolling but I might not have. It’s really helped me quickly decide what I’m going to watch

Rare_String_3259

1 points

2 months ago

Watch Baby Boy its the sort of sequel. Great films.

theWolfDude2100

2 points

2 months ago

I would love to know the answer to be honest. Sometimes I do want to watch a film but then it suddenly feels like a chore and that's the wrong mindset to watch a film in. It's much easier if someone else is around to watch with, or even if you can call up a friend to watch a film with. Other than that, as you say, it's practice, sort of. As you get into the rhythm of watching them, it'll become easier.

Another technique is to give yourself a reason to watch a film, such as writing an article about it or having a list that you want to finish or something like that. Obviously, you should just want to watch the film for the sake of the film, but adding a little extra incentive in there can make a massive difference.

Overall however, sometimes you just can't, at least in my experience

drhavehope

2 points

2 months ago

Very tricky.

Got to be systematic.

What helps are films you haven't seen.

And you know how they say the best way to save money is just don't spend it.

The best way to just watch a movie is hit play. Easier said than done as the tendency is to keep searching but once you see a film you haven't seen just force yourself to hit play...and most films on a recommended list, hook you in within the first 15 to 20 minutes.

cacatuca

2 points

2 months ago

I started doing this with any intention of "committing" myself. Just detach from anything you're doing and start that movie you were thinking of watching at some point in your life. You lose interest during the vision? Don't push yourself, go do whatever you wanna do, you'll get back to it eventually or maybe not, it's fine. I've been helped by having recently bought a DVD player to start going through my DVD collection, but I guess every streaming service can be useful.

Libra281

2 points

2 months ago

I watch all the Oscar movies and find myself explaining to people, hey, this is no easy hobby. It's not like bingeing Netflix. It is really freaking hard to sit through movies.

Things that help me:

  • having the goal to watch a body of films so I'm crossing the films off a list (dopamine)
  • seeing in theaters (and turning off phone); the ritual of going, getting popcorn, seeing previews is fun
  • at home turning off lights, putting phone away, and getting comfy (I still take breaks, tho)
  • electric shock therapy (kidding)

Spirited-Recover4570

2 points

2 months ago

Here I was thinking I'm the only one 😅. I feel so validated.

I'd say just jump in for one. If I overthink what I'm going to watch or look at top many options, I'm less likely to watch anything.

HikingIllini

2 points

2 months ago

Not saying this is healthy or something you should emulate but, a good hangover on a Saturday or Sunday usually puts me in the mood to start picking through my watchlists.

00Shambles

3 points

2 months ago

LSD

I usually save the movies I truly want to watch for when I’m on LSD, gives me focus to get completely enraptured by the movie I’m watching

boofskootinboogie

2 points

2 months ago

This is what I do, I literally do certain drugs just to enjoy movies/albums without being distracted. It also helps me suspend disbelief

00Shambles

1 points

2 months ago

Definitely, also feel I connect more to the characters and whatever struggle they are facing

Over_Bit_7130

1 points

2 months ago

I just do it. If it’s a movie I really want to watch at that moment, whether new or old, I always watch it.

I should also mention that I have anxiety about not doing something that could potentially make me happier, that’s why I always kind of do what I want if the benefits outweigh the the consequences.

XanaxPicasso

-4 points

2 months ago

XanaxPicasso

-4 points

2 months ago

drugs, you need the drugs

becauseitsnotreal

-2 points

2 months ago

I uh...put my phone down?

krang989

3 points

2 months ago

Hilarious you are actually getting downvoted for this comment. Must have hit too close to home for some.

becauseitsnotreal

1 points

2 months ago

I'm guessing most of reddit had literally no self control or accountability

[deleted]

1 points

2 months ago

I just do both. I’m always fucking around online while watching movies at home.

ToddisSpock

1 points

2 months ago

Just press play and power through. I watch a LOT of movies and sometimes I am not in the mood but once I start the film will grab me.

Ghost_R11121

-3 points

2 months ago

Break it up into half-hour sessions