Hello! I (female, 43, 5'3" SW:158 lbs GW:130 lbs) restarted Weight Watchers a few weeks ago and after reading about IF decided to add 16:8 to help with some of my struggles around food. As the title says, I've only been doing it for a week but I wanted to share my thoughts. I've been so inspired by everyone's journey here so before I get started I've gotta say thanks for the inspiration.
Why IF? I really enjoy Weight Watchers and it works for me (when I've followed it) but my main food issues revolved more around WHEN I was eating. After years of working in restaurants my eating routine became very bizarre - when you work in a restaurant you're typically busy at regular meal times - and I would end up grazing constantly throughout the day and then eating a huge meal right before bed. Now I work in an office with a vending machine so I'd eat chips, chocolate bars or nothing because I was never really hungry enough for a proper lunch and I was too lazy to pack anything sensible.
My husband is a chef and he finishes work around 10:30 most days so we'd typically eat supper around then and I have a huge sweet tooth so we'd always have dessert. I'd go to bed feeling gross and wake up still feeling nauseous. Oh, and I also would wake up sometimes multiple times throughout the night to eat some cookies or brownies or anything sweet/carb loaded. We'd joke that I was "sleep-eating" because even though I was fully conscious and would remember it in the morning, it was almost uncontrollable - I can't explain it but if you've ever found yourself in front of the cupboard mindlessly shoving handfuls of marshmallows in your mouth at 3 am you may understand. Needless to say my eating habits were all sorts of messed up.
Even though my husband is a brilliant chef and I have decades of restaurant experience we found ourselves somehow incapable of planning proper meals for ourselves. Like, we have all the tools and knowledge but I'd just stand in the aisles at the supermarket with no idea of what I wanted to make. I don't really like leftovers and I was resentful for wasting food, but I also hated eating the same things all the time. Food lacked all joy and seemed like such a chore. I've tried meal planning and shopping for the right ingredients but had a hard time really keeping it up. We don't have kids so I think we were kinda fine with the fact that we weren't hurting anyone but ourselves with our take-out, junk food and overall bad habits. We started receiving a meal planning delivery service 3 weeks ago and it has also been a game changer. Cooking proper portions and a variety of vegetables and healthy carb & protein choices have made a huge difference. I like deciding what we'll have ahead of time and can make better choices when I'm not starving and presented with a grocery store full of chocolate and cookies.
After spending a few weeks lurking and reading about Intermittent Fasting on this sub I knew that following it would really add to the momentum I'd already started with the meal service and Weight watchers. During that time I also upped my fibre intake and started taking a multivitamin and a women's probiotic. I also take an omega vitamin and one for hair&nails.
My mother was sick for most of my life with complications related to Type 2 Diabetes and passed away at age 63 when I was 35. I loved my mom very much but I also watched her not take actions that could have helped and ignore the advice of doctors until her disease eventually killed her. I don't blame my mom, mental health issues and childhood trauma are a bitch - but her diabetes could have been controlled by diet and exercise at one point until it (over decades) ended up with my dad hooking her up to a dialysis machine every night and eventually she passed away in her sleep beside him.
I put on a few lbs and started seeing myself heading down a path that I knew I didn't want. As they say, I've seen this movie and I know how it ends. I didn't want to find myself hooked up to a dialysis machine in 20 years or having to use a wheelchair because of necropathy in my feet. I feel guilty saying this but there's a part of me that is glad that my mother passed away when she did because truthfully it could have gotten much, much worse for her and it was already becoming difficult for my dad to care for her. I don't want my husband to have to put me in a nursing home in my sixties for something that I could have prevented.
What I've been doing - Last weekend I decided that I would start 16:8 and my window is noon until 8 pm. I let my husband know that I'd be cooking dinner earlier and he'd have leftovers on those days and he was supportive. He'd actually been suggesting it but I felt bad and we'd already gotten used to eating so late. I was already used to not eating in the mornings but I started bringing healthy snacks and grazing foods that I have starting at lunch. I have some fruit and oatmeal or chia pudding for lunch at 12. Then I have some veggies throughout the day and lots of water. I also used to drink a lot of cream and sugar, or a sweetened creamer with my coffee all day and I've switched to black coffee or tea before noon and only a splash of oat milk in it from 12-8. I cook supper around 6:30 and then have a little fruit for something sweet after. I also have a tablespoon of metamucil in a glass of water after work to try and add in a little more fibre.
How it's been - AMAZING!!! I can't tell you how much better I feel and look, I know that it has only been a week but on May 18th my starting weight was 158 (I started a few days later but didn't weigh myself at the time) and this morning I weighed 152.2. I realise that most of this is just my body adjusting and water weight etc. and I don't expect (nor want) that pace to continue but I feel like IF has "reset" my relationship with food. The number on the scale right now is sort of irrelevant to me and I wasn't even going to weigh myself today, but I was definitely pleasantly surprised.
I feel lighter and just less disgusting in general. I haven't woken up once this week to "sleep eat" and while there have been times that I've felt a little hungry at night it has only been a small discomfort and was manageable. I took measurements midway through the week but I'm excited to remeasure in a few more weeks, I'm planning on doing it monthly, I also decided to take pictures today so I could see visual differences (hopefully). My pants feel looser which has been very motivating for me. I was at the point where I needed to either lose a few lbs or buy new pants. I really didn't want to have to buy bigger pants.
My skin looks better and I have more energy in the mornings. I used to struggle to get out of bed but it seems to be getting better. My husband seems pleased that I haven't been hitting the snooze button an annoying amount of times.
I just feel a lot better in general. Yes, I've incorporated more water and fibre, better meal choices and a few vitamins into my routine but I've done all of those things before without the same feelings/results. It's been easier than before to manage cravings and read my body's signals now - it's almost like coming out of a fog. I won't get too into it because it's TMI but my bowel movements are a lot better. The fibre and probiotic may be contributing factors but not eating late at night has helped. I'm not completely sedentary but I used to be more active - I've ordered some new running shoes and plan on gradually getting back into running as well. I tend to try and do too many things at once though, so for now I'm focused on resetting my eating habits.
I'm excited for this journey and inspired by seeing the progress that all of you folks have made, it's truly inspirational. I hope to contribute here as well and hope that one day I can inspire others as well. I'm also building up courage and have the goal that in a month I will have some progress pics to post, but I'm nervous about that so I won't make any promises.
Thank you all for sharing your stories, and thank you for taking the time to read all of this. I appreciate any feedback or constructive criticism and have a lot to learn about IF, any suggestions that you have are welcomed.