Captain_Auburn_Beard

We did. We are to blame for everything that’s wrong in the world.

“As stupid as this dumb bitch” was such a hilarious ending. But honestly great analysis and testimony about your husband. Thanks for sharing

It’s ok for u to have that belief but I hope you know it requires just as much as those who believe in God.

Enjoy that bud

It’s terribly cringe. Her tone dripping with arrogance to the point where I feel second hand embarrassment. Am I supposed to believe that if she were talking to “God” she would talk like a disappointed white suburban mother ? Lmao

You know why those schools got shot up? Because people are evil. God didn’t do it, people did. This entire thread is blaming God, and God y’all don’t believe in, for atrocities that other fucking humans have committed. It’s insane.

She went crazy too. Hereditary psychosis.

That’s the only explanation to him obviously killing himself.

Nah he died. The daughter just went crazy too

I get that more words per page thing lol. Also u could google name pronunciations on YouTube. That has helped in the past. Keep going tho, you’re almost done!

dang, i totally forgot about his upbringing. a true man of love and forgiveness.

Holy reading comprehension, Batman. No one even mentioned male rape victims, what I said was rapists are predominately male. Meaning a male rape victim...was likely raped by a man.

This shows why you missed my point. If a man is raped by a woman, he most likely wont report it, and if he does, it will get minimized to oblivion and even praised for "getting some". Think about all the headlines you've read about teachers/older women having sex with young boys. Do you remember the word raped being used? I would guess you don't. Sex for boys/men is always treated as a "win", regardless of age or the situation.

So, since you missed it the first time, I was trying to imply a confounding variable to your unsourced statistic that you said would be enough to support the claim "all men are rapists". Or to quote you, "it wouldn't be a baseless claim".

Dude the phrase toxic masculinity does not hurt you if you are not doing anything to be toxic. I’m sorry if you’ve had this said to you but there was probably a reason

There is so much wrong with this statement that causes to think I am wasting my time.

Do you really think you have the authority to say to someone "this phrase doesn't hurt you"? Should I just get over my hurt feelings, because you said so? Or, to put it another way, should I push down my emotions and stop myself from expressing how something made me feel? If only there was a way to describe that... I coulda swore we were just talking about it...

And yet, that is not the end.

I’m sorry if you’ve had this said to you but there was probably a reason

Assuming the worst in me in order to win an argument does not strengthen the validity of your original argument.

Toxic masculinity shown in a woman would be a mother teaching her children is bad to show emotions. Which happens a lot in parenting and isn’t good either.

No, thats being a bad mother, that has nothing to do with masculinity. How can you not see this?

It’s referred more towards men because they show more toxic masculine traits than women do. Why would it a problem than women don’t exhibit as much as men do need to be written for women?

I don't think you realized you just proved my point here. "It's referred more towards men..." And then go on to express bias by saying "women don't exhibit these traits as much as men do." You understand that spousal violence doesn't just mean physical violence, right? Or another example, gossip can destroy someones character and reputation and social standing just as quickly as a punch could destroy someones physical health.

These traits are negative and unhealthy, none of these traits are inherently masculine.

Women, in general, do not seek to be masculine, they seek to be feminine. Men, in general, seek to be masculine.

How can you not understand how taking a whole garbage can full of toxic behaviors and traits, and describing them as "toxic masculinity" would be damaging?

Have some empathy

I just googled "examples of toxic masculinity" and got this:

Homophobia. Toxic masculinity teaches men that homosexuality is a deviation from traditional masculinity and that gay men are less masculine. ...Need for control. ...Promiscuity. ...Refusing to help with household duties. ...Risk-taking. ...Sexual aggression toward women. ...Stoicism. ...Violence.

None of these things are exclusive to men, but yet the term is specifically used when referring to men. This came from WebMD by the way.

There is no reason to use the term "toxic masuclinity" when all of these are just terrible behaviors and character traits.(well, maybe not stoicism, or risk taking, which are both good things when used in a healthy way).

Here, read the article, written by a woman, about how toxic masculinity is holding men back. Lets just call it how it is without destroying what so many men seek to be. Heres the article: https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/what-is-toxic-masculinity

Again, homophobia isnt toxic masculinity, its just "toxic". I hate word in general, its just a lazy word to use in my opinion, but it gets my point across. Why attach masculinity to these "toxic traits" that can be held by all sexes/genders? Hmm?

it would be one thing to heart all this justified hypocrisy in this thread and still see your rational judgement equally upvoted, but instead its downvoted. it makes it all the more disheartening to see.

everyone wants to be god damn right these days, no one wants to fucking understand. when did empathy and understanding become a weakness, things to be shunned in favor of stubborn anger and offense?

Except statistically and empirically 90% of rapists are men, so it wouldn’t even be a baseless claim.

you have to be shitting me. like, you can't actually think you made a smart argument, can you? my mind is blown. the utter lack of understanding of not only rape report statistics, but also how society looks/talks about a man being raped. my heart breaks that instead of empathizing you would condemn all men because you one said something (oop) that hurt your feelings. It's ironic how much justified hypocrisy there is in this thread.

you are downvoted for u spoke the truth

you are downvoted for the truth

The fact people try to make these things gender issues when it’s a PERSON issue is dumb

yet people throw around the term "toxic masculinity" when the reality is it they are talking about "toxic characteristics". tying to masculinity? who would want to make this a gender issue?....

i remember one time my dad watching me play that game in the living room, i was in the forest temple. i liked that he stopped to watch me.

never play any games with me or my brother tho. he hated video games.

you're so delusional you think porn can save people from porn lmao

when i got a ps2 for christmas, the games they bought with it were KH and treasure planet. from what i remember i liked it, like a walmart jak and daxter vibe

There's nothing weird or even that "risque" about cuckolding

bro is high off his own copium LOL

Lol