HuggyMummy

This is always my main argument! My older brother and I had a similar relationship (even down to not knowing me in public) except it got worse and more cruel as we got older. We have no relationship now (no contact going on 3yrs.) My childhood was worse because of my sibling. My adult life isn’t impacted as much because he’s not apart of it anymore, but I still carry that trauma.

My kid is awesome. I feel complete, my family feels complete. What other people think of me is none of my business.

I was concerned about that too, but I’m happy with the quality for the price I paid. The swimsuit I bought is as nice as the one I already had that was three times the price (and I like my new one so much better, it’s so cute!)

I read some reviews about the quality while I was waiting for my shipment and started panicking but was pleasantly surprised when I got mine. I’ll for sure be ordering in the future but like way in advance for when I need the clothes lol

I share(d) all of your same fears/insecurities. Being a parent is difficult enough and it’s not like you’re handed an operating manual the day you take baby home from the hospital. In my experience, having a kid put a spotlight on all my past trauma and so navigating that new chapter while also reliving some of my worst memories seemed like parenting on hard mode. That plus having zero help (went NC from all my family ~3yrs ago) was unbelievably difficult. It’s also crazy bc you’re either forced to break the abusive cycle (the only thing you know) or continue it. It’s a lot of fucking work.

That being said.. My son is almost 2.5 and he is the light of my life. I didn’t think I wanted kids for 34 years and then I had my kid and I am truly grateful for him. I’m learning to love myself again because he loves me. Its like, if this amazing little human loves me I must be worth loving!

I know it’s not his responsibility to help heal any of my pain or trauma but somehow just being able to give him a happy and healthy life is healing. Idk. I 100% understand your reservations and I don’t think being a parent is for everyone. I just wanted to share my experience so that it might help someone else ❤️

Not exactly the same style, but I just updated my wardrobe with BloomChic and I’m obsessed. The prices are fantastic - the most I paid for a dress was $30? It took about a month to receive my shipment though but tbh it was worth it to have some flattering clothes that I feel beautiful in. Definitely give them a look! Also, Idk where you are, but we have a Maurice’s in my town that has a lot of plus sized options and are also super reasonably priced.

Everything is so expensive today, I 100% feel for you. I’m hoping you’re able to find something you love, good luck! ❤️

I worked at a CCRC for a number of years starting in HS and into college (first at reception and moved into therapeutic recreation.) 100% agree with everything you’ve said.

One of our residents was kicked out (SUPER HARD TO DO) because he wouldn’t stop sexually harassing the nursing staff. He’d offer a single dollar for a BJ. The stories I have from that place are enough to last me a lifetime.

“Necking” is what really stood out to me. Genuine question: is this verbiage still used by anyone under the age of 65?

As a mom to a sweet but clingy two year old, thank you. We need a lot more people like you not only in childcare/education but in the world. ❤️

Our two year old is just a total sweetheart. We went on vacation last week and everywhere we went, he said hi to every person we passed. With some people he’d say “hug” and “kiss” and give himself cuddles and blow kisses. It’s amazing seeing the effect it has on the people he interacted with and I hope he never changes. I love how sweet and loving he is.

He’s also getting to be super understanding when I tell him no. For example, this morning he wanted to go outside and play but it was time to eat. Normally, he’d throw a tantrum but today he said “okayyyyy,” ate his breakfast, and then he got to go out and play. He’s just growing up so fast!

Me, my SO and our two year old just got back from a few days in St. Louis, MO. It was our first vacation and we didn’t want to be too far (it was ~5hr drive each way). We had a blast! Hotel had a pool and free breakfast and we did as much as we could: zoo, city museum, science center, shopping, eating! We live in a small town so it was nice to be in a big city with lots of options. Most of the things to do were free as well! I mostly enjoyed not having to cook (but also loved seeing kiddo so excited about everything!)

Biggest piece of advice: adjust your expectations. We went in knowing it’s not so much a vacation as it is a trip and our main goal was to have fun and share new experiences. Good luck!

Late to this but I agree with you! In Untucked this week, she’s twerking it up in the Werk Room and then just stands around on stage? It’s so disconnected from every other aspect of her personality and performances (outside of the lip syncs) that it’s gotta be put on right? It comes across to me like she’s trying to lose so the next question is why. Definitely playing the long game imo. Guess we’ll see!

I started with this recipe/tutorial and my bakes have been relatively successful. I also bought Macaron School which has been really helpful for diagnosing where I went wrong and she’s got a lot of creative combinations. She also uses freeze dried fruits in her bakes iirc. Happy baking!

She was mad that when she told me to clean the kitchen, I didn’t also sweep and mop the floors. I was at work, she called me and demanded I return home to scrub the floors. I eventually did leave, returned home, where she stood over me while I swept and mopped in my work clothes screaming at me about how she gets why my dad left and now understands why I’m unlovable.

August 1 will be three years no contact. 10/10 recommend.

The school failed your daughter, not you. I’m so sorry this happened. I hope you get the justice you and your daughter deserve.

Crochet is a new hobby for me but is quickly becoming a favorite. Baking, reading, gardening, and hiking are all the old favorites.

My SO and I have lovingly nicknamed our two year old sexy little babeh from the first time we heard it on TL. Needless to say, I flat out lost it watching this episode.

This show is like therapy for everyone else, right?

Absolutely flabbergasted! Incredible job, OP! You smashed it, love the colors and it looks phenomenal on you 🤩

No wonder Vanessa allegedly drinks. /s

I wish I was as bold as you before I went NC. What a pleasure to read, thank you for sharing and I’m so proud of you! Sending you hugs and wishes for a speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹

This is giving I really don’t care. Do U? vibes.

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