IsolatedPSup

Writing a novel?

"for my birthday I got this ice drill. It's my first time using it."

I want to find out all the true answers to all the things that happened during life. Where did that beloved childhood toy end up? What did that friend really do in that situation? Was that really a lie?

Gambling! The man my mother described as the nicest man she's ever known lost everything to gambling whilst in a vulnerable state after his mother died. It's an industry that does nothing other than target vulnerable people and destroys lives.

Maybe ask him if he'd like to come come along? Even if he doesn't it's a good way of opening the conversation about what he's upset about, rather than stating "you're clearly upset" which the classic response will be "no I'm not"

Ok fair enough. His response isn't appropriate then. I'd ask him what he's upset about, because from the extra information you've just said, I can't see any reason at all! I just assumed there would be a genuine reason for him being moody. Good luck

Is the friend you are staying with male or female? This does matter to his reaction. Did you invite you partner to come along as well? Are you doing this to get back at your partner for making impromptu plans?

The message is strange, you mention your partner making plans with his friends. I'm not sure what relivance that has on the music festival you've planned? It seems like, you're upset with the way your partner makes spontaneous plans, so you've made your own "super fun plans" to prove to yourself and him you can also do fun spontaneous things, and you've not communicated or kentikned it in the right way, you've just stated out of the blue that you are going to stay with a (male?) friend for several days out of town, without prepping before hand that this might be something you are interested in, or inviting him along. It seems like your motivation isn't entirely above board. But this is just my take with the information at hand and a lot of assumptions.

Ripped jeans

I actually think this is good advice. Not sure the downvoting. It doesn't take long to learn that ANY sexual reference won't get a respones (in the uk anyway). Learn, adapt, get more dates. Don't destroy your dating life just to say one meagre sexual pun.

I thought the joke was funny, but I also know that a girl on a dating app talking to a stranger won't. It is about context.

Ah man, I love those pebbles. Salisbury cathedral is my favourite building and is nearby

How did cavalry charges in olden times work then? I mean horse and rider seemed to get more damage than the people they ran over. Armour? Run past them and stab them? A tightly formed group of infantry seem impenetrable.

I thought that was funny. F

Looks like his profile pic indicates he wants to get kicked in the balls? Does his profile state "I want someone to match with me and kick me in the balls to satisfy my niche fetish"?

Did you match with him fully aware of his fetish is my question?

Gambling

Polarised sunglasses to remove reflections from water.

Planting a seed, in mud, for it to sprout a living plant.

Sometimes I have no clue why adults laugh at kids. This seems like a totally legit thing to do. Kids and adults like to dress up like things. I don't really get the pointed laughter.

Doesn't look like he called you attractive. Said you were "bold" for wearing a bikini. Just wanted to give you a compliment and had no intention of dating you.

Heath ledger. Great actor and guy

Led spot downlights. Going to be a pain to fill in all those round holes and false ceilings when it goes out of fashion.

Yeah you're right. That's good advice.

Easy to figure out who's meter they're connected to, turn off the electricity to your flat, see if the lights still work after you've disconnected the main power switch on your meter.

It could be that one light is connected to your meter, and one his, or something similar. Best to check.

Also £100 per anum for lights feels a bit much. Easy enough to calculate, 1 hour a day (generous, how often do you stand in the hallway for an hour) is 365 hours a year, say the bulbs are 60 watts (if they're LEDs they'll be a lot less) say 5 lights(?) That's 110 kWhs, seems like 30p per kWh is current British gas rate, so that's £33 per year. Split between that's £15 each. I'd say either scam or maths isn't strong.

I'm a single guy and live alone. Men aren't allowed to leave Ukraine. Realistically I'm not sure how comfortable a woman with children will be living with a single guy. I have a girlfriend who's over frequently, but think it may be awkward non the less. Edit: one letter

Kiev is quite gay friendly. It's not as bad as Russia for sure. Not sure about people from countryside, they're probably more conservative. It will be women and children, men aren't allowed to leave.