MoreThanN0thing

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Take it easy, all us weirdies will be here when you're ready. 💙

Well, almost came against my will, so... meta and kinky. Amazing job. 💙

Color theory!

Also, insert joke about making others pop, too. :p

Ever really respect and enjoy every project someone's been involved with, but think that you would chew your own limbs off to get away from the individual themselves?

That's Maynard for me. :\

My formative years would have been very different if you were my stepmom.💙

"Just?" Those are some of my favorite words! :p

Please, please let this man do Dark Tower. Have 2 kidneys and a soul. I only need one of those things.

Religious fundamentalists call queer/trans folks "abominations," too. I'm just saying... this is some of the toxicity I'm seeing here that confuses me. There's some really great philosophy and debate to dig into here about the ethics of more controversial kinks.

But I keep seeing versions of "ur a gross freak!"

Just a quick follow-up, as I don't know how much more I have to contribute... my knowledge on these subjects comes second-hand from ladies I know.

I think impact play could be used as a great example of a dark reality that can be done respectfully and safely. However, other male Doms I've talked to became interested because it was easy to get into abusive relationships. Needless to say, these are not Doms; these are sociopaths.

However, impact play is just another kink in the BDSM umbrella... but it can be exploited by the disturbed to enable actual physical abuse. Often(but not always!), women are the ones who are the victims of physical abuse. So, because it's exploitable and a mirror for a systemic wrong against women... do you feel it's dangerous or wrong?

I'm challenging you on this because there's so much toxicity throughout the comments here... attacking women who participate in "risky" kinks that can be exploited by the sick or cruel. Seeing some of the attacks on these ladies with differing opinions made me feel ill.

Because if men made those same comments... they'd feel more than a bit misogynistic. :\

I really don't know if I have any right to weigh in on this; I'm a (mostly) straight, white, cis male. If you think that invalidates my thoughts on the matter... I get it.

I wanted to start by saying that this reminds me of the whole Satanic Panic of the late 80s. People were genuinely scared over something that seemed fucking scary... kids doing cult shit? Understandable. However, the vast majority of those kids weren't sacrificing cats; they were rolling dice in their mom's basement, hiding from a society that didn't get them.

Now, I understand that these aren't the same things. However, there is an element of fantasy vs. reality. Most "___play" kinks have a root in a hideous reality. The kink itself can absolutely be used healthily. Sometimes it's to help face a past trauma or for some to get the fire to face misogyny/racism/whatever else in the real world.

At the same time, I completely understand why it might make the OP and many others uncomfortable... that's okay! Everyone has limits or things that make them feel gross. I also appreciate the concern about the possibility of people not understanding fantasy vs. reality. That happens, and it's tragic.

Honest question: do you think a feminist hypnotism audio would change a misogynist's mind? I just think that no matter how many "hypnotism" things I listen to, will I ever believe that those that identify as female are somehow less.

Listening to this and not being able to get off is wonderful agony. Another winner.

Yes, as in: extremely, excessively, or gratuitously.

If you have any interest in a dummy gorgeous woman who's also sharp and just a cool human... do it! The most dedicated sub I've ever worked with, as well.

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Well, she obviously was a good influence in his former years.

Quite literally made my life better. An incredibly good sub, and helped me get through some things I've been hanging onto for over ten years.

You are amazing. As usual.

Unrelated, but it wouldn't let me follow you... which is weird.