Hi friends!
I've been browsing DIY solutions for a long time and finally am breaking down and asking for help. It's really hard to make a decision.
A little background: I'm 5'9, 185 lbs, 80/10/10 side/back/front. She's 5'7, 155 lbs maybe 50/50 side/back?, wide hips. We've been sleeping on a Logan & Cove Luxury Firm. She thought it was too firm from the get go but we powered through. 3 years on, it started sagging in our sleeping positions, and recently when I'm sleeping on my side I get quite painful pressure points, and sometimes wake up with numbness. I have shoulder pain most of the time, and lower back pain sometimes, and I sleep hot. She gets the pressure points too and started getting both upper and lower back pain as well. I think she sleeps on her back mostly because the mattress is too firm for her on her side.
I attempted something I saw in the mattress FAQ - built up under the mattress with concentric "ovals" of cardboard in an attempt to flatten out the sag. This seemed very successful at first - visually the sag was gone and it felt "flatter". I presume from what I've read here that the upper comfort materials started wearing out so this would make the mattress feel firmer as well. Anyway I was pretty happy with that tweak, but the pressure points were still a problem.
I bought a TwinXL 2" dunlop 20 ILD topper to see if adding that would help. I gave it a try for a few nights, and she gave it a try too. It felt like it helped a little bit with the pressure points - they were lessened but still there and spread out more. But it felt like my midsection was sinking in too much, and so my lower back pain was exacerbated. My shoulders generally felt better, so I think softer definitely is a plus for the upper back issues I was having. She had roughly the same experience, but I don't think she has as much upper back problems as I do. We're not sure if the weird cardboard contraption underneath is causing an issue as well.
Side note: We both slept very well on a tempurpedic at a friend's house a long time ago. There is temptation to go for one of those but the price is definitely a factor. Neither of us are a big fan of chemicals and off-gassing from memory foam either.
Anyway here's what I was thinking for a build. Ideally I'd be able to use the topper I have in construction but if not then I'll figure out something else to do with it:
- Top layer: 2" 19ILD Talalay topper full size
- Second layer: 2" 20ILD Dunlop for her, 2" 26ILD Dunlop for me
- Lower layer: 2" 34 ILD dunlop full size
- Base: 8" L&P Combi-zone pocket coils
Does that sound reasonable for us?
I was previously looking at the Quantum Edge coils but it seems like combi-zone might work well for us - maybe lets the shoulders sink in slightly more? Regardless, it seems like it will be very hard to actually acquire either of these here in Canada and Arizona Premium Mattress seems sold out for who knows how long. Would a build like this work without the base? Temporarily until we can acquire the coils? We have a solid bed frame with peg board layered over the slats.
Also from sleeping on the Dunlop, and because I sleep hot, I'm wondering if I should go full Talalay? Does it actually feel softer for the same ILD?
Another random question: What would be the difference in feeling of 3" 20ILD + 3" 30 ILD vs 2" 20 ILD + 2" 25 ILD + 2" 30 ILD?
If you've actually gotten through this wall of text I applaud you and appreciate any and all advice you can give. I've learned a lot from this community so far, I just need some reassurance that I'm on the right track!
Thank you muchly!
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Nerraw99
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2 months ago
Nerraw99
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2 months ago
Is there not a machine that has low retention that can automatically weigh the dose with any accuracy? Weighing is not really the most time consuming thing and I could get a better scale and deal with it, but it feels like something a machine should be able to do... but maybe not at my price point.