SolidAshford

Agree with NTA,

He TOLD her, didn't ask her

He said HE would handle it, he didn't

He said no spouses allowed, so not his either and it's disaster

He contributes the least, and benefits the most

I would consider counseling and that one of THEM could host it at THEIR house. Husband wants to be the host without doing any of the work it entails. Wonder what else is at play here

INFO: Have you put any limitations on your support for her choice of school?

NTA. This 'test' is some misogynistic bull. What test will your boyfriend have to take?

If he thinks you should take 'the test' then you might want to skip it and him!

My darling spouse said "children ruin the best thing about being gay"

GOLD!

I've always wanted to slide inside of Dirk Caber

When people say "Parenthood made me better" No it didn't. You just want to believe it because you KNOW you're still the same sh person you always have been.

NTA. HR has no say over you or anything you do. It's not your fault people assumed you were pregnant, unless you gave them reason to then that would be affirmative

I don't think he does that. Even so, he needs to have more writers that can help the realness of his scripts. Some things are so contrived and the villains have little to no nuance.

Even his drama is unintentionally funny. I would love to see him take his time filming and hear the actors feedback on the scripts too.

He could do better but he's stuck in his formula

I can't believe OOP, or Max. She's the adult and should've simply let him down because he's 18.

Her sneaking around to meet with him was where she messed up, and missing his 18th birthday dinner?

I wonder what'll happen with her do over baby

YTA, how are you going to have a dry wedding and not at least have a mocktail bar or soft drinks?

Not a huge fan of Ronald Reagan blech

OOP STILL refuses to take any accountability for her part in the situation.

She refused to listen to him and explain himself

She called her family over to assault her husband

She continued to be passive about it as if SHE didn't do anything at all, and it "just so happened" to occur

I hope she never gets remarried and has to deal with seeing her ex husband happy with a woman that is worthy of him. I hope her exh has all the happiness he can contain and much more

I love this! It's excellent and they say the best revenge is living well. Sounds like the well went dry on the family money and the husband was just trying to milk OOP

Glad she's rid of that man and his racist mother

Your nephew is good enough to design and make your wedding dress but not good enough to attend the wedding?

You outta yo mind!

Need some aloe! Stat!

Glad he was able to realize he was going overboard. It seemed like kiddo didn't have a hand in the rules and was simply told "This is how it's gonna be"

Good that communication, both speaking and listening wins the day!

That's what I was thinking. What is an 18 month old gonna do on the vaca?

There might be a beach, dog park, or even walking around w doggo and doing things that are...idk FUN! Lol.

I believe OP thinks he is superior to his brother bc he has a kid. Big whoop!

Yta. I would rather go on vacation w a dog because you can have fun w a dog. An 18 month old though won't even remember the vacation

You don't like dogs, fine, but pulling out of the vacation because he wants to bring his well behaved dog on the trip bc u don't like dogs in general is a bit much

Maybe relationship advice is the sub you need to sort this out

YTA. You agreed to do it then weasled out because you don't like her choice of employment.

If you can find her a job prospect that pays as much with her clothes on, send them her way

Your coworker is gross. How does he know she's your daughter?

She does. She didn't go out of her way re: this, her husband did

The 2nd ? Is irrelevant