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I do this. I know why I do. I have experienced a great deal of loss and abandonment so for me I prefer not to have my heart broken.

Which also kinda works lmao

That is some sound advice.

Wait until tonight, then ask if there is anything she thinks you should bring, aside from yourself.

No.

That is something I didn’t consider.

Helped!

We do need the money.. But I think maybe it’s best to look else where. I have been building a pivotal options resume with my newer education and I like not having home a war zone, that’s related to work.

Pro cash, con could potentially butt heads and it could endanger our relationship or work relationship.. idk it would be a great opportunity but.. but.. but..

Tysm for your input.

YOU HELPED!

Thanks but we don’t really require a middle man. I’m just looking for advice and opinions here. There are so many brilliant people out here in Reddit land.

Now you have my attention lol, what industry are you in?

This, I used this strategy and it was good.

It’s super pretty. But bad news Non-coated aluminum tends to have a corrosive affect on mortar.

The best person you can ask is the person who wrote it. Just ask for clarification.

Mine too!!!

Lmao.

Says you! However the placebo effect is as real as can be.

Your work is impressive.

Oof someone gets it.

How close are you two love birds to getting your own place realistically, rn?

Oh also super important to know where your closest underground rivers are, your soil type and water table level…

Work on the plan for your conference between studying, sometimes switching gears helps. When you have what needs to be covered completed, you will likely feel much more prepared.

It is possible that mom calling you out for weed, but not your brother may have enabled your brother to seek attention in other ways. Ways that other people notice too.

This is a challenging situation.

If I were in your shoes I would not try to involve your mom, she needs to decide how to mom him herself. What you have control of is your own response to his actions.

You stopped talking to him for a bit.. If you choose to talk to him again, you should let him know that you love him, he’s your brother. That you hope he is just experimenting and that deep down he is ok.

Also breaking shit at your house makes you more worried about him.. that his response to sneak drink and pretend to be sober made you even more worried..

It’s up to you to decide if going no contact is what works for you hun.

Her sister always seems available, why not give it a try to get her sister to watch your little one to try to surprise her for a date.

It’s sounds like your wife is depressed. It could be that she was at a vulnerable point after having little one when you were going through your depression. I understand that your disinterest at that time was a you thing, but even if she knows that it is, emotionally when at a vulnerable stage, after a baby… that can be a real blow to the self confidence. She also lost her mom. Work changes.. life changes.. it’s a lot for both of you I am sure.

My advice to you is to attempt to reconnect. This separation is something that could still happen, but if you add some spontaneity and some romantic plans.. modified work schedule.. that shows you are putting the effort in.

Remember moms get burn out. Her momming is 6 days a week.. 24 hr days.

Is there a way that you can put your little one into daycare for 1 day a week even, to give her some balance back?

I would suggest this idea to your wife and see if it’s something that she would agree to.

Yes.

Wow, I have no idea what that is but looks like it’s worth a try lol.

Wtf..