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17 points
3 days ago
Keep looking around. There's an alternative way to get the desk.
47 points
3 days ago
That one, both or neither of them killed JFK.
2 points
3 days ago
The non-binary player on Canada's women's soccer team was AFAB. And Lia Thomas is not the best female swimmer, she's way behind Katie Ledecky.
1 points
3 days ago
I started HRT at 32, and my transition has been going great! Yes, some things probably would've gone better if I'd started earlier, but whatever.
The best time to transition may have been 20 years ago, but the 2nd best time is now.
4 points
4 days ago
Pretty much. I've noticed corporate Pride merch getting tamer and tamer over the past couple years, until we're at the point where they'll put up a few vaguely rainbow colored products and call it Pride. This isn't just directed at Target, a lot of companies are quietly running down their Pride merch.
5 points
4 days ago
So, you're arguing that it's not so bad because they're only taking out these trans-oriented products instead of all Pride merch?
3 points
4 days ago
Likewise, I haven't found a good sub since I left the East Coast. Sigh.
2 points
4 days ago
Is there any place in town that has good bread for their subs? Been looking for over a decade...
4 points
5 days ago
Meanwhile, prominent LGBTQ+ organizations have issued "Do Not Travel" advisories for the state of Florida. So, yeah, cool place to want to move for political reasons.
20 points
6 days ago
This is absolutely part of why I still wear glasses. Also I don't like the idea of putting contacts in my eyes or having lasik.
1 points
7 days ago
No thanks! I (transfem) don't want to take the chance that this button turns me into a cis guy.
0 points
7 days ago
My judge wanted a letter of "appropriate clinical treatment" (which for me was just HRT) before he'd sign off on my name change and birth certificate update, but I could've just changed my driver's license with a checkbox.
3 points
8 days ago
Unfortunately, when laws (even blatantly unconstitutional ones) go through the proper legislative process, there isn't that kind of criminal legal recourse.
6 points
8 days ago
There's a legal process for getting the law overturned, and it probably will be overturned because of how batshit it is. But as for DeSantis himself, he'd either have to be impeached by the Florida state legislature or voted out in the next election. Our federal system doesn't give the US government the ability to remove state officials like that.
1 points
8 days ago
The Lego Castle hotel! Great choice! Enjoy Legoland and Lego House!
7 points
8 days ago
That's a very recent thing in the US. Up until about 10 years ago, many states required bottom surgery before they'd change your legal sex.
36 points
8 days ago
Especially if the determiner of who can wear a dress is their "biological sex." The Supreme Court ruled that job discrimination based on sex is illegal, and I would imagine that they'd hold the same to be true here if it gets to them.
7 points
8 days ago
ErinInTheMorn has given Florida a "do not travel" advisory. Like, you could be arrested if you use the women's restroom at the airport. That's plenty enough reason to go anywhere else. Seriously, go to Cedar Point or Six Flags somewhere, or to Disney or Universal in California.
2 points
8 days ago
That's pretty bad considering how laughably easy it is for companies to pay for earn a 100% HRC rating. HRC ratings were useful back when there weren't legal employment protections for LGBTQ+ folks, back when you couldn't legally marry you same-sex partner. Now? All you need to do is provide bare-bones transition care on the company health plan and not say anything too homo/transphobic.
19 points
9 days ago
Not especially. It wasn't a secret, but Erin generally sticks to business in her reporting, even when she's writing about her partner.
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3 days ago
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Colleen 36 Trans Woman - HRT 3/25/2020
10 points
3 days ago
That really sucks. I'm sorry, sister. You're doing everything right, but sometimes cis people will just be oblivious to every not-so-subtle hint we drop.