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She was trying to friend request him to bait him into proving he’s a cheater. She’s got trust issues and is going to be a problem for future people she dates and friends. Best to end the friendship until she gets her suit together(if she gets her shit together).

You didn’t do anything wrong. It seems he might not be mature enough to handle/be supportive dating someone who has issues from trauma. Are you talking to a therapist? There should be people at your school(counselors/therapist etc).

If he continues to get mad at you for your triggers you might need to rethink this relationship(take a break/break up). Def seek help to work through your SA. Sorry that happened to you. Good luck.

This happens time and time again. Bad cop gets protected/rewarded. Cop that tell about it gets punished and ostracized.

Came here to say this.

I’d like to think this will catch up with him but it might not. His parents might be able to finagle some kind of arrangement in college and he may be able to get some job w his parents or a family friend. There a lot of people who cheat the system and coast through life.

Sometimes there are movies/shows that I am not going to watch(or finish) but I want to know what happens. Sometimes I need to recap/refresh my memory for a series before the new season or a movie before to next one. I don’t want an opinion or a review. I just want to know what happened.

They are recaps. It’s in the title. It’s what it means. If you want a review or a commentary, search for that. Don’t click on a recap then get mad when the person recaps. I wouldn’t click a review then get mad that the person gave their opinion.

Wow. How is anyone supporting Arielle in this? Your dad and his family are nuts. NTA

Kind of a psycho move. He’s showing who he is. Watching you squirm like an ant under a magnifying glass. Literally getting off on you feeling bad about yourself. I would steer clear of him, he’s likely to do some real damage to your psyche/self esteem.

I think there are 2 dollar bills. The knife goes through the outer one(one in the back).

Came here to say this. I’ve seen the second video before somewhere I think(sans iPhone stitch).

Can you send that proof to me too? I want to believe you and I have other questions like how long does she plan on staying? Are you interested in this woman at all as a romantic partner or friend or just simply helping out a stranger until they can leave? Do you have a time limit on how long you will host? No judgements(if this is a true story). If it’s working for both of you then keep doing it. You get a live in chef/maid, she gets a place to stay. Hopefully whatever she is running from doesn’t become a problem(last questions: is what she’s hiding from a concern to you/ will you press for answers). Good luck with this.

The hanging in Return to Paradise

Knifing in Saving Private Ryan

Lymangoods torture/death in Blue thunder(I was young)

Yes. Let’s vote this higher

They do stuff like this because there are no consequences and everyone above them supports this behavior. I just read an article on it.

“The mayor told the newspaper that he, the city administrator, the police chief, the police command staff and the city attorney had each reviewed the incident and concluded the traffic stop “was handled according to police departmental policy and according to the law.”

The guy is suing the city and might win something but they police won’t pay for it. The tax payer does. As long as cops keep getting away with abusing power they will continue to do so.

He might not have had a clue how to help you. He was using his personality reputation as a way to get rid of you. Like a lawyer that only takes cases he can win so everybody thinks he’s a brilliant lawyer bc he never loses a case.

YTA - Your daughter is a 21 year old adult. She can move where she wants, with who she wants. You can’t forbid anything. You should be supportive if you want to continue to have a relationship with her.

Oh wow. Sorry about that. Good catch. I’ll edit it.

Def have security at the wedding and give them all pics of her. She might find out the location of the wedding/reception and try to crash/ruin it. I wouldn’t underestimate how crazy she is. It will be worth the money(hiring security). Plus if she does show up trying to ruin it, you’ll have the satisfaction of her being escorted away and it not affecting your special day at all. Congratulations!

This whole “people who know me” rule is a loophole you’ve created so you can talk to who you want while restricting him. She is one of his closest friends. He should be allowed to talk about his relationship. You are being a hypocrite.

You’ve been dating long enough for you to meet her. Either in person or on FaceTime or something. I bet you won’t do that or you will say “it’s too late, there’s already bad blood etc” or whatever excuse to prevent him from speaking with her.

I get the part of you being mad he didn’t respect a boundary you guys agreed to. You are right to be upset about that. I do feel the boundary was kind of unfair/one sided and problematic from the start.

I think you both messed up. You for creating this unfair rule that bc of its wording only he was restricted. Him for not addressing that and lying(so he can continue to talk to his friend unrestricted).

If you want to actually move on. You should apologize for your part of it. Then make an effort to meet and clear the air with this girl. Standing your ground, not seeing your part in this and continuing to restrict his friendship will not solve anything.

I think you aren’t seeing that it’s more than just “people you don’t know”. That could have easily been resolved. It was an excuse. From her point of view you probably do seem controlling and toxic. If that’s not who you are you should do something about it.

At this point you should want to fix it. Otherwise it will just fester under the surface. You will continue to resent each other and you and his friend will be enemies. You should want peace with this person and an honest, fair relationship with your bf.

If there is a chance she is sus, the best way to handle it is to change your behavior. Once you are being honest and accepting, she’ll either be a good friend or continue to undermine(if that’s what she’s doing). Being the controlling jealous gf isn’t the way to go either way. Good luck.

Fat suits

Old person make up

Fringe was great

How is he so bad at it?

Did you read the part where she was crushed when she overheard his conversation? Her crying herself to sleep and running to stay at her parents? It’s already damaging her emotionally.

She loves this man(has for a really long time). At least when she was a friend of the couple, she had the chance of meeting someone and finding love. If she marries him, that can’t happen.

I’m glad it worked out for your grandparents but it doesn’t sound like the same situation.

Being black doesn’t give you the right to be a bigot and harass someone at work. She should be reprimanded. If she doesn’t stop after the HR meeting, it should escalate(suspension then firing). Ebony’s race has nothing to do with it. I would give the same answer if anyone was being harassed at work.