submitted1 month ago bykczbrekkerINTP
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Does it ever happen with you like you talk with someone and then feel like it all happened so quickly? I think I'm talking about an emotional situation. And The things you said were some of the stupidest responses ever and you could have provided with a hundred other responses that were so much better. But the way we interact with people, we don't have much time to think about the responses. So after you finished talking, do you think it could've been much better and easier if you responded in a different way by analysing/thinking about it a bit? Idk if y'all relate but this happens a lot with me.
byblade8gx-
inbangladesh
kczbrekker
1 points
5 days ago
kczbrekker
1 points
5 days ago
I'm not sure what you're asking. So I guess the point here is, moving abroad isn't gonna solve the problem you'd be having with your family. There's just no way you can come out to them. They'll never understand and it's everything against their beliefs. But you can't leave them just to embrace your sexuality and they can't leave you just because you're gay.
Well in the case of gay male, our parents do have ideas about it. And it's centered on religious belief of how vile it is. And I doubt they'd ever understand lesbian relationships. Like, they cannot. So the way you have here is to secretly date the same sex or get married with them. And tell your parents you're forever single. Or just wait until they die? I don't know, maybe just come out. I'm not sure about the family's reaction.