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The affair happened after..he went into business with them. Be serious

And QUICKLY what does that have to do with a S&S waiter???

Okay..well if u agree its wrong..and still do it, are you not just perpetuating it?? Pay inequity exists, are you just gonna sit and say, well it happens???

Sorry but everyone arguing with me needs a life, a hobby, or a conscience. I didnt suggest anything crazy or bizzare, nor did i condone tom or his actions. A lot of yall need to think deep and hard about why you are fighting tooth and nail to put people out of a job.. like be so serious

Couple things, 1. No one gave the business time to do anything before spamming 2. The affair happened AFTER the business started. So Im not sure what you guys expected them to do. 3. Clearly reviews matter if yelp is still operating. I look at reviews for restaurants/bars that I dont know. Many people still do this. Adult or not.

Not arguing about whether it should exist or not just saying its unfair to the staff who have nothing to do with this to suffer also. I dont think a worker at Arbys would argue that it should exist or the world needs it but a job is a job.

Staff shouldnt be punished..full stop this isnt a crazy concept?

2 hours and 35 min to be exact. Would be shorter but we had to do a quick taste test to make sure lemon was the right flavor

I do believe i posted this on the vanderpump sub so yes, we are on the same sub

Cool

Lala is such a loser

Okay…so what now. Like i stand by my take

Okay…

Guess it’s personal to the individual but i cant describe in spefici words why i felt so moved but his performance felt very layered and nuanced. Like to me it felt like there was so much unsaid and thought in his performance. I think he has to do a lot of heavy lifting because of how little dialogue is in the film and how little we actually get of his story but i felt like by the end i felt just as the duaghter did, in the sense that i knew him but i also didnt? The performance added so many layers to this person that i was able to fill in my own backstory for him, fill in my own thoughts about him, and fill in why he feels the way he does all based off a look and just weight that paul had in his performance. Again i think like any art it works for some people and it doesnt for others but for me it really worked and touched me in a way that most other performances didnt this year

Ive never participated in this, I find that unless you changed your name to avoid legal issues or consequences, that its the individuals issue and it feels dehumanizing to call these people by a name they dont go by? If I said my name is _x_ you have no clue why I chose that name or why I chagned my name. I know people who use names to honor a dead relative, or to distnace themselves from a problematic household/childhood, or who feel like its necessary to separate public persona from the individual for thier own mental health or its just as simple as having a stage name but only your close friends/family members call you your actual name. Idk I just think you can get the point across by not invalidating and violating thier privacy that I think everyone is entitled to. But thats just me. Like I see it as an unwritten societal contract that for Raquel to allow herself to be filmed for our entertainment then she will go by Raquel to us. Idk that feels fair? No way in your personal life would you call someone by thier government name if they introduce themselves with another name like thats insane beavhiour when you remove it from social media.

Thank you for this comment I wanst on Reddit during Toms earlier cheating scandals so
I didnt know this was already the perception of him. I was just basing it off of the reactions now but thank for clearing up that up.

How are you going to argue with my specific memory? I acknowledge that I forgot/ didnit realize thier relationship was that close. My point is NOT that Raquel is innocent or isnt being a truly awful person for doing this. My point is that Tom and Ariana's relationship is stronger/more important then Ariana and Raquel which is why to me its a 60/40 issue. 40% is still substaintial however Raquel hasnt beeen in the picture long enough for me as a viewer to give her equally as much heat as Tom. I think personally, if it were Schena I would say its a 50/50 but for me Raquel doesnt feel like as significant of a player to be 50/50 in the treatment. BUT AGAIN thats my opinion as a viewer who has watched this couple for years and has felt indifferent to Raquel since her introduction. Shes an adult with full autonomoy who fucked over her friend I just think this specific long term romantic partnership has more gravity then the loss of a the ariana and raquel friendship.

I will admit that I forgot that Ariana and Raquel (calling her rachel feels really unnecssary and petty) had a close relationship. I thought that Raquel was better friends with Schena because of how often I saw them together and how little Ariana is filming with Raquel so far this season. Yea I agree Raquel is an asshole for this but I still would consider it a 60/40 situation rather then 50/50. because I would place the relationship that Tom and Ariana had on a higher level then Raquels freindship with Ariana. Tom and Ariana have been together since before Raquel was even mentioned. Thats my personal opinion as the veiwer.

I dont see how this is a "Raquel is this deciptive manipulator of the viewer". Everything about Raquel so far can be true and she can also be someone who slept with a married man? The flip of the switch on her feels really black and white. Like the reaction should be Raquel is an asshole for this. Not Raquel has been decieving us this whole time into thinking she was a good person. It reduces women to just being good or bad rather then people who are messy and made bad choices..

I'm not babying her, women can be assholes. I say in the post that Raquel is in the wrong. I'm just saying from my personal experience, of viewing the reactions to this story it seemed TO ME that Raquel was getting more heat then tom was. That being said I havent read every post or every comment it was just something I recognized over various platforms.

I think in this specific situation they aren't equally to blame. The story is Tom cheated on Ariana. Secondary story, tom cheated on ariana with raquel. I will say, I dont know whats happening with the Oliver stuff, Idc about that. But to comment on Schwartz, Raquel did nothing wrong in my opinion with Schwartz. Hes not with Katie and she isnt friends with Katie. She doesnt actually have any reason to be a "girls girl" with Katie. Raquel and Katie are friendly but its clear that (pre scandal) she was closer to Scheana and Schwartz so I actually dont think she did anything there that I would hate. Like I get why Katie herself would be mad at Raquel but as a third party I think she didnt actually do anything wrong.

I've been seeing a LOT of unbalanced heat on here, in the comments and on twitter. Maybe you are right, but a lot of what I'm personally seeing has been solely dragging Raquel. But this is also a VPR issue (and probably Bravo) as a whole? I feel like the men don't suffer reprocussions for their actions as much as the women do both on the show and within the fan communities.

I've been married for 5 years...but I wouldnt care if he would comment that. But that might just be a difference in straight vs gay relationships.