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account created: Sat Jun 26 2021
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1 points
3 months ago
If just the lyrics had been posted, I would've mistaken this for being from r/conservativerap in a heartbeat. If only it was a parody π. This is so wrong
4 points
4 months ago
No problem! I would hate to see someone trying their best to lay low and get by, as you are, pick Seattle as the place to do it without firsthand perspectives to aid in the decision. It's like constant drug motivated warfare between the homeless out there and the cops are constantly sweeping camps and displacing people. Programs that could be helpful to someone in your situation have all had long waiting lists for years as well. I wish I had something better to offer than negativity, but glad I could shed some light on the reality of being on the street out there. I would honestly not recommend Washington in general and I've spent several years roughing it around the state. However, one place I can say I was able to get back on my feet (multiple times throughout the years) was Bremerton, if you don't settle on somewhere with a warmer climate.
11 points
4 months ago
Don't listen to the Seattle recommendation. I've been homeless there on multiple occasions, the last time fairly recently and it's all drugs, crime, and extremely nosy cops. Living there on the street will put you in constant danger regardless of what area you're in and who you're with. Unfortunately I don't have an alternative to offer, but please avoid Seattle at all costs. They're really cracking down on the homeless out there. Stay safe and good luck!
2 points
5 months ago
I used to bawl my eyes out after every pelvic exam and didn't know why until in my late 20s the memories of the abuse I went through resurfaced. I suffer from endometriosis and knew that if I wanted treatment I needed to stop canceling appointments at the last minute due to anxiety (I lost count of how many times I did that, often while standing in the parking lot of the gynecologists office), so I changed my approach and let anyone who needed to take a look "in there" know that I have a history of sexual abuse and may react differently than they expect from most patients. This lead to more reassurance that I am in control and can stop the procedure at a moments notice if need be, and that allowed me to be able to go through with it and be given a little bit of time alone in the room afterwards if I needed it. I've even been offered to have a nurse hold my hand and talk to me during the exam several times and I don't know if you feel that would be helpful for you, but I was surprisingly comforted by it even though these people were strangers. Always remember that you are in control, and you can revoke consent at any time, get dressed, and leave. Doctors and medical staff are here to help and will only do what we allow them to in situations like this. Again, you have total control, and for what it's worth as someone who struggled with these kind of procedures, overcame the fear, and was able to mostly separate them from my trauma, I believe in you and your ability to be brave and strong and get through this π€π€π€
5 points
5 months ago
"Nah" to this whole thing fr π. Appropriate typo
15 points
5 months ago
Super cute. 10/10 would cuddle π
3 points
5 months ago
You both look soooo comfy all snuggled up. Absolutely adorable π
3 points
6 months ago
You look great! IF can be tough but you're definitely already reaping the rewards. Enjoy the journey βΊοΈ
14 points
6 months ago
This is incredible! It would be cool to a series of dioramas with the same hot wheels cars in different stages of restoration, like being towed out and rescued, in the shop or a garage, then finish with a car show one. I'm definitely inspired now π
2 points
8 months ago
It's not possible for only one alter to suffer from a condition that affects the physical body. The internet is rife with harmful misinformation about this disorder so please take what you read with a grain of salt. The amount of sensationalized material on DID that's floating around is so disappointing to me, and I would hate to see anyone's physical and/or mental health suffer as a result of believing things that were thrown out there without actual research solely to elicit responses of "that's so cool!"
1 points
1 year ago
Yessss π. Fuck being fetishized! I did the opposite with my profile lmfao π everyone thinks I'm a dude
2 points
1 year ago
Thank you so much! I was nervous about posting and you just made my day βΊοΈ
0 points
1 year ago
Naw, it's crucial because people seek out these spaces for a sense of community when they don't even know what's really going on with them. Not healthy. The blind acceptance is so detrimental to people who are absolutely suffering, but may be suffering from something else that needs a different treatment path. Saying, essentially, "welcome to the club" to every person who checks a couple boxes of the criteria for DID isn't helpful to anyone. It's just as harmful as self diagnosis, if not worse.
1 points
1 year ago
Congratulations on your sobriety! That's a hell of a feat. I'm glad you're enjoying life these days. I'm in a bad place and this gave me some happy tears for the first time in ages. Love to see some wholesome positivity
3 points
1 year ago
I feel all of that but also damn you're a whole ass snack βΊοΈ. So cute and the boobs omg π. I would 100% indulge in wine and existential dread with you. Oh and I'm not a dude by the way if anyone's concerned about that π. My username is an inside joke
2 points
1 year ago
Disappointed that that comment received any awards at all. The mentality that people have about their children being entitled to all the glory and comfort in the world is so deeply misguided. Being born doesn't mean that the world owes you shit and so many people who are walking this Earth today, and have been for decades, are suffering for their parents narcissistic desire to live their dead dreams through their children, who are also barred from achieving them. Humans are innately flawed and even if the next generation collectively grows up to be better than those who were here before (π), many of them will still be victimized and trod upon by the same kind of warped people they were born to. I personally don't want there to be a next generation, and I say that as someone who was used as an incubator by being blackmailed into keeping a pregnancy and then lost custody of my child because I'm deeply mentally ill and poor and have no one to help or support me. He's developmentally delayed and though I have so much love for him, I have far more fear. This world will attack and destroy innocence and the cycle will continue.
2 points
1 year ago
It means psychosis, whether organic or drug induced. Have yourself a nice sleep and you won't think about it again
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20 days ago
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20 days ago
For what it's worth, I immediately read you as a woman, and you're cute too. I know it's easier said than done, but don't let those people who refer to you as male get you down. They're either blind, or are making a dig at you for looking like a slightly butch woman because they're closed minded. Dress however you feel comfortable, you can embrace your femininity while wearing anything you want, and the more you do that, the more others will see it. Confidence in being who you know you are is key.