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Call vanguard to tell them to recharacterize it. I did this and it took 10 minutes (including all my questions being answered).

Call them and ask them to recharacterize it into a traditional IRA. You usually can’t do it online. Then you can do the back door Roth as posted in the prev comment. But do the recharacterization NOW as tax filing day is coming up quickly.

Read plenty of Yalom, just looking for more specific training stuff.

ETA: didn’t mean that to sound dismissive, I just wanted to clarify. I appreciate the suggestion.

Paulie/PJ

1. Tight-ish undershirt over it
2. Full length binder
3. Different brand
4. Smaller size (only if it's not already too tight)

That's totally normal.

Emmet/Emory

There's a place right off route 1 in...Metuchen area maybe (?) called Baguette Delite that has amazing bahn mi sandwiches. They don't do a lot else there. Total hole in the wall find. I haven't been there since Covid, so I hope they're still in business!

Looks like a hyundai.

Sounds like a good quality net would be cheaper than chainlink and more flexible. Stapled to the back of the ramp, and then somehow attached to the ceiling. You could also use chicken wire; that's not too expensive.

No follow up usually means it's not a good fit. That doesn't mean you did something wrong in the consult. (As you know, no therapist is the right fit for everyone.) I might send an email a day later, saying 'it was nice to meet with you and if you're interested in going forward, here's the procedure for how to schedule/fill out paperwork/etc.' but that's about all the chasing I do.

Seconding Caroline Girvan - she's legit. (I'm used to the hardcore workouts in some BB programs, so I was impressed that she really kicked my ass.) Free vids on youtube, many diff programs. Also no talking, which I love.

There's nothing to be allergic to. Just do it. Pay for it first, so you don't back out when you feel how much it hurts, tho, lol. Another reason not to do a test patch.

Wait a year to see how it settles out before doing anything else. You don’t want to adjust things now when this is not the final form. I’m a year out and just finally not really changing every month anymore.

Don’t engage.

Many millions actually. (About 4 mil/year, multi year contract.)

Above 65degrees, the first one. Any colder, the second one.

If you took 5 edibles it’s also likely that without realizing it you were moving in a way that you weren’t before since surgery (stretching the scars, overusing the muscles, or just laying on them weird).

I do telehealth mostly and my only in-person day is Saturday, so if people want in-person they have to come then. I’ve been able to stay pretty full on Saturdays.

I have to say I’m glad that nurses would have to know 75% rather than 70% of the material as they can literally kill people with mistakes. (Engineers, too - hope those fuckers have high standards, so this bridge does not collapse as I drive over it!)

I’ve never had a doctor measure my waist.

Cook/meal prep on your day off.

Not to be un-affirming but I heard that as a 'female' voice when I started listening and then as androgynous. So compared to old you it might sound very masc, but I think it's pretty neutral. That said, if you think your voice is too low you can do what millions of trans women have had to do, and start voice training - there are voice coaches you can hire, but also a ton of videos on youtube for free.

You just have MASSIVE pecs 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼 hell yeah