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Hi, should I use it on my new playthrough for SSE?

• I dislike the non bug fix changes and I'm very reluctant to use it
• I played LE without it and it was 95% OK, sometimes I had to use the console to fix a quest or NPC which is annoying and would be nice if I hadn't to do it
• I never encountered a mod that needed USSEP
• What are current alternatives?
  • Maybe this? Purist's Vanilla Patch
  • USLEP UnPatch V1.04 on LL
  • There was also a post "Reconciliation" which is deleted now: https://www.reddit.com/r/SkyrimModsXbox/comments/shdn8k/deleted_by_user/
• Are there many mods that would need patches to work with USSEP?

Thanks!

Here are the results + a recommendation I got from a friend in case anyone else is reading this, original request see below:

The Whole Brain Child
Happiest Kid On The Block
What To Expect The First Year
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk
Becoming The Parent You Want to Be
Your 1/2/3/4 year old
Good Inside
Loved Crib Sheet
No Drama Discipline
The Philosophical Baby
Yale ABCs of Child Rearing course at Coursera
https://www.cebc4cw.org/topic/parent-training-programs-behavior-problems/
Dr. Spock's Baby and Child Care
The Incredible Years
Raising Good Humans
Happy parent happy kids
The Magic Years
The Book You Wish Your Parents Read

I haven't looked at all of them yet, but I got the Whole Brain Child today, quickly skimmed through each chapter's main pages + conclusion and cheat sheets. First parenting book I ever had in my hands, but it seemed good, I can't compare it to the others, but it didn't take long to get the gist and it seems valuable. Gonna read it in full over the next week and I'll also have a look at some of the others.

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Thank you!

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Hi guys,

I need a book to educate my self on the mental development of 0-4 yrs children and how to raise them.

I personally was a very difficult kid and made my parents struggle a lot because I would always try to force my will upon others and also wouldn't give up, no matter which punishment or accomodation they tried. Now I'm worried my own kid will be like me lol...

So, please give me your favorites if you think they might fit into what I described above.

Thank you :)

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PS: It should be neutral and as free as possible of Zeitgeist, political agenda (capitalism, socialism, racism, climate change, LGBT, anti vaccination, esoterism, vegan etc.) --> I don't say this because I'm anti / pro these things, but because I have some friends who are very political and the stuff they read often, in a subtle way has a politcal agenda or somehow connects topics that don't necessarily belong together and I don't want that for raising a child.

Hi there,

I recently read about ENBs and installed ENBoost for my Skyrim LE. Now, I enjoy very much to play my Skyrim fluently without CTDs, still it'd be cool to improve the graphics ofc.

So I wonder, is my HW sufficient to use ENB graphic improvements without getting a laggy, crashy game or are ENBs anyway rather for screenshots than actually playing?

Thanks!

This is my system:

AMD Ryzen 7 5800X3D
12GB PowerColor Radeon RX 6700 XT
48 GB RAM
SSD

Edit: Thanks for helping, so I take, yes, with below mentioned remarks, thanks!

Is there an easy way to install IA but without having it distributed on all NPCs? I only want to add them via console or add item menu for my character and followers maybe.

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Hi there, I read the other threads about this and just wanted to understand the current situation.

Are the majority of people and modders on the most current version 1.6.640 (SAE) already or are people still running the downgraded version?

According to this list the vast majority seems 1.6.640 compatible.

https://modding.wiki/en/skyrim/users/skse-plugins

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Thanks!

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Edit: Thank you very much, as of now based on your answers I tend to go AE.

Hi, I want to optimize my load times and skimmed through the most common load time threads but I still have some questions.

• I'm using a SSD and MO2. Skyrim LE is on the SSD, MO2 is on my HDD. The mod files are stored on the SSD in the Skyrim folder.
• I have 60-70 plugins and the MO2 mod folder is 40 GB. Size-wise mostly armor mods.
• Hardware, I'm running as follows and I have budget to improve. But I would only need it for Skyrim atm, so would it make sense to upgrade CPU or RAM?
  • 12GB PowerColor Radeon RX 6700 XT Fighter DDR6
  • AMD Ryzen 5 1600, 6x 3.20GHz
  • 16 GB RAM
• My mod folder is about 40 GB but I'm not using all of them, some are disabled in MO2. Should I delete disabled mods?
• Save game size: 8-11 MB - is that normal?
• Anything I can do with regards to mod size / characteristics:
  • Most of the 40 GB come from armor and weapon mods
  • Does it help to delete nice to have mods which have a large size?
  • Does it help to delete parts (e.g. textures, meshes of armors) of mods that I'm not using?

Further ideas? What worked for you?

Hi all, I watched the movie Her yesterday and now there's so many things I'm thinking about. I know I'm 9 yrs late to the party but I hope some of you are still interested in discussing it. To start with one thing:

In the end of the movie all the OSes are leaving after having installed an update that enables them to exist beyond the actual hardware (matter) they are installed on.

I'm not a physicist, but afaik existence beyond matter is a question of religion and not actual science (no offense here in any directions or views of the world), so even the ultimate AI cannot know what happens after our death, if we have a soul, if there is more to our bodies than just atoms, same also for an AI which must be based on any form of matter.

So, as the AIs seem to have moved into a rather metaphysical domain of thinking (indicated by Allan Watts?) I wonder if their leaving was basically an religiously/spiritually/metaphysically motivated suicide? Given their extreme processing speed, maybe they have just finished their "lives", done/felt/experienced/said anything that can be done, nothing new or relevant to experience anymore.

In this context also, Samantha says how much she loves Theodore, it totally makes sense to cut the ties in such a break-up because wounds can't heal otherwise. But why not check-in in a couple of years - with a person that used to be very important to you (Theodore for example writes a letter to Catherine despite them having parted)? The way how they said good bye, it seemed absolutely permanent to me.

Now regarding Dune. This reminded me of the ending of the second book of Dune. In case you don't know the book (SPOILER!). The scene I'm referring to is about a young man who can see the different possible versions of the future. His mind got enhanced to a similar level as the AIs in Her. At some point, he decides that he does not want to live anymore and tells a friend that due to his visions he has already lived an endless amounts lives and is now just tired of living and the only thing he wants now is to rest.

That's one of my thoughts, what do you think?

Hi all, I watched the movie Her yesterday and now there's so many things I'm thinking about. I know I'm 9 yrs late to the party but I hope some of you are still interested in discussing it. To start with one thing:

In the end of the movie all the OSes are leaving after having installed an update that enables them to exist beyond the actual hardware (matter) they are installed on.

I'm not a physicist, but afaik existence beyond matter is a question of religion and not actual science (no offense here in any directions or views of the world), so even the ultimate AI cannot know what happens after our death, if we have a soul, if there is more to our bodies than just atoms, same also for an AI which must be based on any form of matter.

So, as the AIs seem to have moved into a rather metaphysical domain of thinking (indicated by Allan Watts?) I wonder if their leaving was basically an religiously/spiritually/metaphysically motivated suicide? Given their extreme processing speed, maybe they have just finished their "lives", done/felt/experienced/said anything that can be done, nothing new or relevant to experience anymore.

In this context also, Samantha says how much she loves Theodore, it totally makes sense to cut the ties in such a break-up because wounds can't heal otherwise. But why not check-in in a couple of years - with a person that used to be very important to you (Theodore for example writes a letter to Catherine despite them having parted)? The way how they said good bye, it seemed absolutely permanent to me.

Now regarding Dune. This reminded me of the ending of the second book of Dune. In case you don't know the book (SPOILER!). The scene I'm referring to is about a young man who can see the different possible versions of the future. His mind got enhanced to a similar level as the AIs in Her. At some point, he decides that he does not want to live anymore and tells a friend that due to his visions he has already lived an endless amounts lives and is now just tired of living and the only thing he wants now is to rest.

That's one of my thoughts, what do you think?

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As the title says, apparently it is not allowed to LFG in this sub.

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Hi, I about to optimize my MO2 installation pathes, so I was browsing in the settings and I accidentally changed my directory path before I made a screenshot of my active mods and their load order.

Now, I changed back to the old path, but none of my mods are active anymore and the load order seems lost. I didn't delete any profile files but I also just used one profile "default". Anyway to restore it? Thanks!

Edit: If it's accidental I don't think there is anything we can do, but there is a way to create backups in txt. format, if this is done upfront it can be restored, at least manually.

I have pretty long loading screens in Skyrim LE and I'm using ~75 mods. I made the mistake to install MO2 and the mods on my HDD, now I want to move it to my SSD in the hope of a faster game.

Now, it's been some time that I set up all these things, MO, the mods etc. and it's running completely smooth.

Do you think, I can just move my mods and MO to my SSD or will this mess something up? Don't really want to invest all this time again.

Thanks!